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Some tips to
flirting online.
Flirting online
is quite different to flirting in real life.
You don’t have body language or facial
expressions to help you along the way and so
your online actions and the words you speak
become the most important key to flirting
online. Done well it can make the difference
between a good friendship and a steamy
romance but done badly it can lead to
alienation and ignorance. Everybody loves a
compliment but too many of them are likely
to scare a lot of people. You come across as
being needy; a trait that would scare the
most romantic away. Use a well-placed
compliment and you may just score yourself
that all-important first date.
First contact.
First contact is
the key to successful flirting online and a
successful online relationship. While you
should use compliments sparingly the first
contact is probably the very best
opportunity you have to effectively use a
compliment in a bid to impress and enthral.
When you send your first email or instant
message you should definitely try to include
a compliment but don’t just guess. There
must be a reason that you want to talk to
this person and that reason is probably
somewhere within their profile. Tell them
what it is and why that makes you want to
contact them. Be nice but don’t be too over
the top. Telling someone they’re so
beautiful you want to marry them is likely
to scare them away not entice them.
Make them eager.
By responding
immediately to any emails or messages you
are sending out a message that says you are
desperate and you are taking away a lot of
the mystery that you had managed to build
around yourself. The key to online flirting
is to wait a little while but not too long.
If you wait too long you risk losing them
but respond too quick and you risk scaring
them off.
Enjoy yourself.
Flirting online
is all about having fun; that’s why you’re
doing it. If you are being natural and
really enjoying chatting to someone then
this will come across in the words you write
and every other aspect of your
communication. By asking cheeky questions
that you find amusing you are openly
encouraging cheeky answers giving you both
the perfect opportunity for a little
enjoyable flirting.
Avoid direct
sexual comments.
You might really
fancy the person you are talking to and want
to meet them but you should take your time
before hinting that this is what you want.
Don’t use direct sexual comments, the best
way is to simply ask questions about the
other person and be relatively open in your
answers. Never lie but don’t give everything
away in one go. You’ll soon have nothing
left to talk about and there’s a good chance
you’ll have no-one left to talk
to.
Read "First Date
Tips"
Or "How To
Find Singles Online"
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