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How not to attract women
online.
Many sites and online
publications deal with what to do in order
to attract possible partners on Internet
dating sets but there are a number of things
you shouldn’t do or you face losing their
interest forever.
Waffle.
When compiling your
online
personal ad, as well as making it
interesting, don’t include every detail
about yourself and your entire family and
life history. This will not only potentially
bore people to death but it appears clingy
and needy; traits most women don’t find
attractive in a man. Two things you should
know about women is that they like to talk
and they like a challenge. By writing 4
pages about yourself you’re discouraging
women because they won’t get the opportunity
to talk and there’s no challenge to be had.
Questions.
Once you get past the
personal ad stage and you’ve struck up an
email relationship you still haven’t sealed
the deal. Always keep a dialogue going by
asking questions but don’t ask too many in
one go and don’t take too long over the
answer to any questions she ay ask. Don’t
talk dirty unless she instigates it; women
think men are only ever after sex and if you
start talking about it in the middle of a
conversation about family she will have had
her worst fears confirmed. She’ll never
answer your emails and you will go down in
her life history as that weird pervert on
the net.
Spam.
Don’t flood her inbox with
emails just because she hasn’t answered
yours in the last twenty minutes. There’s a
reasonable chance she may not have had
chance to read it yet and if you send an
email saying ‘are you not answering me?’
every five minutes then she probably won’t.
A successful ad can lead to a
lot of responses and if you try to respond
to each and every woman (what woman
wouldn’t?) then you are going to burn out
very quick or get confused.
Never lie.
Never lie in any of your
correspondence. Lies are incredibly
difficult to keep going, remember and follow
through with and you will regularly find
that your lies will catch up with you and
when they do you will not only be left
embarrassed but also alone. Women hate men
who lie even though she has probably lied
about something during your conversations of
on her own personal ad. Men and women
regularly lie in these circumstances about
many different things but women find it
unacceptable that a man should do this.
Besides it’s very difficult to keep up the
pretence if you’ve declared a six figure
salary; you will struggle to pay the bills
in those flashy restaurants and she will
probably wonder why. Be honest from the
start and you won’t go wrong.
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