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So you think
you’re ready to move your online
relationship to the next level.
Knowing when an
online relationship has moved to the stage
where it can become an offline relationship
is difficult and it will differ with every
relationship. Some women might be quite keen
to meet you in the flesh and see if you’re
as promising as your online ad made you out
to be while others are much more
conservative in taking that risk. You
shouldn’t try to push them into meeting you
and telling them that the other woman you’re
talking to online has agree to meet you
already probably isn’t a sensible move. If
you think it’s time then you should look for
pointers that indicate your online date is
ready too.
Fishing for a
date.
If she suddenly
starts asking you what you are doing that
evening one day next week this is the
perfect opportunity to ask her out on a
date. Try to make it something a little
different or impressive. An expensive
restaurant is good but try to make it an
expensive restaurant next to the river. Then
you have a good excuse for a walk after your
meal as well.
The signs.
Basically you
need to look for signs similar to this, so
if she mentions that there’s a certain place
she’s always wanted to see that would be
your perfect opportunity to go for it.
Perhaps there’s a movie she’s suddenly
started talking about, the perfect chance
for you to take her to the cinema.
If you’re
struggling to pick up on any of these clues
then there is a sure fire way of finding out
if she is indeed ready to take your online
relationship one step further. It might be
difficult but don’t email and don’t call her
for a day or two. If she emails you next day
to check you’re ok and that you’re still
talking to her then she’s as interested in
you as you are in her.
Make it public.
When asking your
online date on a real date, don’t try
inviting her round to your house for a
romantic night for two. If she has any fears
about meeting you then she will think
they’re all coming true at the first sign of
this approach. Take her somewhere safe where
there are other people; this doesn’t mean it
can’t be romantic. A walk by the lake or a
trip to a museum (if that’s what interests
her) can still be romantic if you play your
cards right and read the signals correctly.
Read "Online Relationship Building"
Or
Read " Long Distance Relationships..they
work?"
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